Things are sad. But i dont want them to fall apart..and if they do, i will be responsible for it.because im the one who troubles him. and now even his friends are telling him how bad i am..that i just talk and dont listen to anyone..and what sort of parents i have that dont even care about me and where i go and stay...bu the truth is taht im fooling them..they arent to be blamed..his friend told him that we both are LIVING A LIE..it hit him and he started askingme when will i tell them about us. but what shud i tell them..im just so tongue-tied..i cant open my mouth abt anything to them..i havent been close to them..so how can i tell them abt something that is sooo close to me..can anybody help me with this..tellme how to tell me parents abt my several-years long relationship...
alecweston
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It sounds so hard for you - and it's so hard to give advice, especially with all the cultural nuances which I don't know about. From this distance, from London, I would suggest the last thing you should do is tell your parents. But who am I to say? alec